the Honest Assessment

A self-reflection guide for people to realign with truth, heal inner narratives, and return to power.

Most people don’t fail because of lack of ambition.
They disconnect from themselves, and build from fear, not clarity.
This is your mirror. Your reset. Your return to honest, soul-aligned leadership.

1. Where Am I in My Relationship with Myself?

Prompts:

• Do I feel like I can trust myself right now?

• Do I like how I speak to myself in hard moments?

• When I feel uncertain or afraid, what’s my instinct?

Self-trust is the foundation. Not self-perfection.

2. What Does My Inner Dialogue Sound Like?

Exercise: Write a script of your current self-talk in three scenarios:

• When you wake up

• When something doesn’t go as planned

• When you imagine success

Then ask: Is this voice mine or one I inherited?

3. Self-Image Check-In

Purpose: Reveal the identity running the show beneath your strategies.

Complete the sentence:

• “I see myself as someone who…”

• “When I think of being seen, I feel…”

• “Deep down, I believe I am worthy of ___ but not ___.”

4. Audit: What Do I Believe About…

Answer honestly and without filtering. Don’t spiritualize it, witness it.

Area of Life, Belief, Statement (Raw + Real)
Love "I believe love is..."
Work "I believe work should be..."
Life" Life feels like..."
Family "My family taught me that..."
Emotions "Emotions are..."
Feelings "Feeling deeply is..."
Money "Money means..."
Relationships "People are usually..."
Friendships "I believe friends are..."

You can’t transform what you won’t name.

5. Now What? Mindfulness, Forgiveness & Rewiring

1. Mindfulness:
   Pause. Breathe. Read your answers. Don’t judge. Just observe.

2. Forgiveness:
   Say to yourself:

   “There is nothing wrong with me.
   I was wired for survival.
   I learned to protect myself. And now I’m learning to live.”

3. Rewiring:
   Choose one area above and write:

   • The belief I want to release

   • The new belief I want to embody

   • One micro-action to anchor this new story

6. Final Note: Just Accept and Keep Going

You don’t need to “fix” yourself to create a powerful business.
You need to be honest. Present. Willing to keep going even when it's messy.

This blueprint is not for shame.
It’s for liberation.